While You are Thinking it is Love, it May Be an Emotionally Abusive Relationship

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While You are Thinking it is Love, it May Be an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
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All of us are too innocent to think of something negative about love. But just as much we love to preserve the positivity in our life, there are certain elements or forces in our life, that exercise emotional abuse on us. Moreso, the shocking fact is that we tend to overlook it in the name of LOVE! 

Why get abused when you deserve all the love in this world? The aspect that hurts the most here is that people are so drenched in the idea of love and mushy feels that they do not mind being abused to an extent. You can be your best friend and your worst enemy, so mind it folks!

Here we bring to you the signs that you may not be able to identify as emotional abuse. 

Take care, peeps!

1. They are least bothered about your state of mind.

1. They are least bothered about your state of mind.

They keep on confessing their problems, without looking for what you are going through.

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2. They get angry, unnecessarily.

2. They get angry, unnecessarily.
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While you are happily sharing a good time, they suddenly lash out at a petty aspect and then it all comes shattering down.

3. They talk only when they want to, not when you want to.

3. They talk only when they want to, not when you want to.
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Otherwise, they are MIA. I mean, how at all is this fair?

4. They easily get irritated, which is a big turn-off.

4. They easily get irritated, which is a big turn-off.
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And thus, you refrain from sharing your feelings.

5. There are constant check-ins on you by your partner.

5. There are constant check-ins on you by your partner.
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Thanks to the ever-looming insecurity. And you tend to give in, thinking it as care and concern.

6. More than love, there is narcissism in your partner.

6. More than love, there is narcissism in your partner.
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Which, you fail to understand and identify, too. You are blinded by love...

7. There are constant jibes at you, for being the way you are.

7. There are constant jibes at you, for being the way you are.
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You are questioned in your state and there is a constant demand that you change, only to vent their ego. 

8. Your accomplishments and qualities are often belittled.

8. Your accomplishments and qualities are often belittled.
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You think that they are doing this to get the best out of you. Phew! Darn innocent soul. Nope, you have to stand your ground, no matter what!

9. Even though they break your heart a million times, you cannot keep yourself away from them.

9. Even though they break your heart a million times, you cannot keep yourself away from them.
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True, ain't it? This may be due to fear of survival or simply love. Time for a quality check peeps, there's no one who has the power to hurt you, take control of your emotional well-being. 

10. They do things as per their convenience and portray as if, doing for you, that too, thoughtfully. 

10. They do things as per their convenience and portray as if, doing for you, that too, thoughtfully. 
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Heart-breaking, these words maybe, but they can also be true. 

We hope this piece managed to open your eyes to the abuse and convinced you to take care!